Almost seven months ago my wife, Alida, switched jobs. She was a speech-language pathologist at an agency that was about a one-hour, one-way commute from our house. Now she’s a speech-language pathologist at an agency four miles from our house! This change has allowed us to spend more time together, both thanks to the time we get back because she’s in the car less and the opportunities to have random lunches together.
Today we had one of those random lunches. We met at a park near her office and had salad and a dessert together, picnic style. I was almost finished eating when I did something my mom taught me not to do — I was talking with my mouth full. Some food feel from my mouth onto my plate. Naturally enough, I scooped that partially-chewed food up with the next bite and ate it.
But the craziness of the scene made me giggle. Alida asked what I was laughing about and I said, “If I don’t have to tell you, I’m not going to.” “Is it that nasty piece of food that fell out of your mouth that you just re-ate?” Alida correctly guessed. We both had a great laugh together!
I’m truly grateful for moments like these. Without them, life wouldn’t be half as fun as it is! And we had this silly moment because of the decision that we made together for Alida to switch to an agency closer to home.
Now I want to be honest, that decision was really hard…for a ton of reasons. But one reason why it was really hard for us to make is that we didn’t have a stated mission as a couple. I am to blame for this. Why? Because Alida has been wanting us to have a mission statement forever, pretty much since they day I asked her to marry me. But I was reticent because I thought it was cheesy and a bit too corporate for my laid-back ways.
But as I was praying today, it struck me why she and I have had such a hard time making some decisions: we don’t have a stated mission as a couple.
So after we cracked up about how gross I am and talked about some other stuff, I admitted to Aldia that she had been right all along about mission statements. She got this huge, ear-to-ear grin! And right there at the same table where I had just re-eaten some food, we crafted our very first mission statement as a couple.
Here it is: To make the God’s love tangible in our world.
May God be honored by our intentionality and may he work through us to his glory!
Whether you’re in a couple or not, do you have a mission statement? If so, want to share it in the comments?